Change and control go hand in hand. A few changes fall into your control’s scope, whereas others remain outside it. You cannot control the weather no matter how much you want that sunny January morning was sparkling snow. But there are other times when it does not feel like you have control over a situation when you do and your personal financial health is definitely one of them.
People frequently fixate on the money features they cannot control, such as the market or returns, rather than focusing on what they can control such as savings, investing, spending, goal-setting, and more. When we talk about our personal finances, it has everything to do with perspective. Your financial perspective is also called your money mindset. What’s a money mindset and do you have the power to change it? Let us find out.
Forgive your past.
A lot of beliefs and behavior patterns that we have today about money are things, we got from our childhood or from our past. They aren’t true and they do not serve our high good. Forgiveness is a way to release them from our heart and energy field, so we are no longer blindly re-creating similar patterns and keeping ourselves stuck at a similar level of abundance. Grab a piece of paper as well as write down all of the painful memories you have around money including your parents, lovers, bosses, or yourself that make you feel icky, stressed, frustrated, and worried. Once you have decided you’re going to be wealthy, you have to regulate your reason to want this financial success.
And that means determining your why. Your why drives a deep sense of purpose and aids you develop the motivation you require. Actually, having a why can directly improve factors in your life that tie into overall happiness. So why do you need to pay off your debt, save money, becoming financially successful, and financially independent, etc.? Knowing what your why will be your final motivator particularly on the days or during the seasons when things aren’t going precisely as you planned.
Open your mind to infinite possibilities.
When we talk about manifesting, your logical mind is the worst enemy. It has a limited capacity to think beyond what it knows, and it may be fast to tell you things like: Well, you cannot earn more from your present job, so getting more money is, frankly, and impossible. When you have unexamined assumptions that you can get money in specific pre-determined ways such as a pay-cheque from a day job you block the Universe from discovering other good creative ways to bring you abundance.
When your life is complete to the brim with old energy, clutter, memories, you aren’t symbolically or energetically making space for abundance to come into your life.
Do an assessment about your life– look lovingly at your house, bank balance, lifestyle, friends, career, leisure time, and wellbeing.
Where are you not being true to your values, heart, soul? What wants to go in order for you to feel free, and liberated? The further you remove anything that no longer serves you, the additional space you make physically and emotionally for new people, chances, and abundance to flow into your life.
Know your worth.
You’re a divine spiritual being having a human experience. You’re the Universe experience itself via you. Your creator wishes for you to experience endless happiness, fulfillment, peace. Unless you know your true worth and nature, you’ll likely experience feelings of guilt and doubt around getting and abundance. When you wake up to who you’re, you start to realize, you aren’t here to survive and struggle you’re here to live, thrive, make, expand.
Take tiny moves to have the feeling of abundance.
Abundance isn’t a number on a bank statement, a big home, or an expensive holiday. Abundance is a feeling. Think about what abundance means to you. Does it mean generosity? Does it mean freedom? Does it mean indulgence? When you have got to know that what is an abundance to you, you can take steps to get the abundance’s feeling on the daily basis. You can do this via visualization or by looking around your life and coming up with creative ways to feel the way you want to feel.
Perhaps you feel abundant when you: spend a complete hour with a better book and a glass of wine cook dinner for friends have washed hair as well as wear your favorite outfit or carry a $100 note in your wallet. Begin doing these small actions more frequently. When you make the abundance’s feeling within you, the Universe will pick up your new signal and begin bringing you conditions to match your new vibration.